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Overcoming Daddy Issues

My healing journey began when I was 30 yrs old and in an effort to obtain my birth certificate for my passport application I went to the records place and they couldn’t find my name in the system. After giving them my mothers name, I learned that they changed my name to Indiana Williams giving me the last name of my fatherđŸ˜± I didn’t know this man. I’ll admit that as a child I often saw his name on school records because I been handling my mother's business since 2nd grade, but I only met him once when I was 13. That sent me into an identity crisis. All of a sudden I didn’t know who I was or where...

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Dear Daughter, I am your safety net!

Dear Daughter, I am your safety net. I came to provide you a safe place. I saw you hiding and trembling when men and women took advantage of you. The enemy wanted to do far worse. You can lean on me, baby girl. I won't let you fall. You are my top priority. My love never fails, I will never turn my back on you. "For the oppression of the poor, for the sighing  of the needy. Now I will arise," say the Lord; "I will set him in the safety for which he yearns." - Psalm 12:5 You can trust me, I am not him. I will not abandon you. I will not silently watch you fail. I will...

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Dear Daughter, You are no longer fatherless!

Let go daughter! All that you wanted him to be seek that in Me. The love you wanted, I have it. The protection you needed, I got it. The validation you seek, I got it. Your father was just a vessel. He can oppress you no more, unless you let him. I know it doesn't seem like it but I was always there: loving you, protecting you, validating you.  I was with the teacher who spoke highly of you and mentored you. I was with the church leaders who guided you and taught you. I was the voice drawing you and wouldn't let you drift away. I am the one who protected you from the trap your "friends" set for...

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