As a leader, it can be tempting to fall into the trap of people-pleasing and avoiding difficult conversations to maintain the peace. However, this often leads to neglecting our own boundaries and allowing others to mistreat us. It's time to break free from this cycle and find true healing and freedom.
A few weeks ago I got a text from an Ex. Unfortunately this wasn't shocking or outside the norm because no matter how many times I block him or ignore his texts he still reaches out every few months. However I found myself triggered because no matter what efforts we take to set boundaries in our lives, the enemy will find a way to test you. Contrary to popular belief the enemy does not know your future, he only knows your past, and he will use it to tempt you and/or get you off track; not from obtaining what your future has in store but from your rest and the faithfulness of God. Setting boundaries can be difficult, especially when...